Writer & founder
Emma
Late diagnosed. Differently wired. Writing it all down.
I write about ADHD in women from the inside. I live with it, I was diagnosed as an adult, and every post on this site comes from that lived experience — then gets checked against published research.
My story, briefly
For most of my life I thought I was the problem. The missed deadlines next to the all-night masterpieces. The eleven abandoned journals. The drawer of planners that worked for exactly nine days each. My adult diagnosis reframed all of it: not a broken person, just a differently wired brain that nobody had ever explained to me.
Lace & Dopamine is where I document what actually helps. Not what should help, not what helps neurotypical brains — what helps this one, tested in real life, with the failures left in.
What I write about
Gentle routines that survive contact with an ADHD brain. Honest reviews of planners, fidget tools, and Amazon finds I’ve used myself. Home organization that forgives you. Nervous system care, soft self-care, rejection sensitivity, and the unglamorous reality of late diagnosis. You can browse everything by topic or start with the Start Here page.
My approach
I’m not a doctor, therapist, or coach, and I never pretend to be. What I bring is the first E in E-E-A-T: experience. When I cover the science, I lean on the work of established ADHD researchers and clinicians such as Dr. Russell Barkley, Dr. Edward Hallowell, and Dr. Gabor Maté, and I link to sources where it matters. When a topic touches health, you’ll see a medical disclaimer at the top and a reminder to talk to a qualified provider.
Every post goes through a defined process before it’s published. You can read it in full in the editorial guidelines and AI content policy. Product recommendations follow one rule: I only recommend things I use myself or would buy again — more in the affiliate disclosure.
Where to start
ADHD Tips for Women — the hub, if you’re newly diagnosed
Emotional Regulation & RSD — for the feelings that hit at full volume
Want to say hi, suggest a correction, or share your own late-diagnosis story? Use the contact page or email hello@lacedopamine.com. I read every message.